There is no fear when you choose love. The more you choose love, the more love is in your life. It gets easier and easier.
Remember that you don't choose love; love chooses you. All you really can do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing then reach out and give it away.
I love music but, of course, I'd choose love over that.
The way we can allow ourselves to do what we need to, no matter what others may say or do, is to choose love and defy fear.
Although Freud said happiness is composed of love and work, reality often forces us to choose love or work.