John Lone — American Actor born on October 13, 1952,

John Lone is a Hong Kong-born American actor. Lone has played roles as diverse as a caveman in Iceman, Puyi in The Last Emperor, and an apparently female opera performer in M. Butterfly... (wikipedia)

The point I'm trying to make is, I'm really quite neutral. I have not been conditioned.
I don't want to sound pompous, but I really think your gender doesn't necessarily dominate your sexual activity.
But I really want to be an artist, so therefore I have to live a little bit like a monk.
I didn't have parents, so I lived in people's homes... And because I grew up with no parental role models, I learned to become my own friend, eventually my own father and my own mother.
An extraordinary diva would never sit by herself.