Don't be intimidated by people who seem to be experts. Hear their points of view and get their judgements. But at the end of day, you've got to make a judgement because it's not their life that's going to be affected so much as your future.
An expert is someone who has succeeded in making decisions and judgements simpler through knowing what to pay attention to and what to ignore.
Judgements prevent us from seeing the good that lies beyond appearances.
Make no judgements where you have no compassion.
One should make morals judgements for oneself.