Don't be afraid to look silly.
'Have fun' is my message. Be silly. You're allowed to be silly. There's nothing wrong with it.
If by chance some day you're not feeling well and you should remember some silly thing I've said or done and it brings back a smile to your face or a chuckle to your heart, then my purpose as your clown has been fulfilled.
I like to do chill things on dates. I think it would be fun to go to the zoo. I know it's really weird and random, but I love animals. It'd be like a day of doing silly things, while enjoying nature.
So many things happen for every event, and if you try to manipulate it, it means you are struggling against the whole universe, and that's just silly.