June Singer — American Scientist

June Singer was an American analytical psychologist. She co-founded the Analytical Psychology Club of Chicago, later the Jung Institute of Chicago, as well as the Inter-Regional Society of Jungian Analysts. She helped to popularize Carl Jung's theories in the United States, and wrote several well-regarded books... (wikipedia)

Androgyny is not trying to manage the relationship between the opposites; it is simply flowing between them.
Androgyny refers to a specific way of joining the 'masculine' and 'feminine' aspects of a single human being.
The first half of life is spent mainly in finding out who we are through seeing ourselves in our interaction with others.
Is it sufficient that you have learned to drive the car, or shall we look and see what is under the hood? Most people go through life without ever knowing.