At the heart of personality is the need to feel a sense of being lovable without having to qualify for that acceptance.
Love is very dangerous if you just have love and don't have the ability to be lovable.
The only way to get love is to be lovable. It's very irritating if you have a lot of money. You'd like to think you could write a check: 'I'll buy a million dollars' worth of love.' But it doesn't work that way. The more you give love away, the more you get.
Defensive players kind of have that two-faced kind of way of being able to be very aggressive on the football field and going out there and getting there job done. At the same time, from my own incidents and my own personality, I'm much a person that's very likable and lovable.
Authors like cats because they are such quiet, lovable, wise creatures, and cats like authors for the same reasons.