Bessie Head — South African Writer born on July 06, 1937, died on April 17, 1986

Bessie Amelia Emery Head, known as Bessie Head, though born in South Africa, is usually considered Botswana's most influential writer. She wrote novels, short fiction and autobiographical works... (wikipedia)

Love is mutually feeding each other, not one living on another like a ghoul.
A discipline I have observed is an attitude of love and reverence to people.