The process of learning requires not only hearing and applying but also forgetting and then remembering again.
All men and women have an equal need for love. When these needs are not fulfilled it is easy to have our feelings hurt, for which we blame our partner.
To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his own.
When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom.
Generally speaking, when a woman offers unsolicited advice or tries to help a man, she has no idea of how critical and unloving he may sound to him.