I grew up with a pretty tough mom. She was a self-appointed neighborhood watchdog, and if she saw that any of the local boys were up to no good, she would scold them on the spot. Although she is only 5 feet 2, she was famous in our neighborhood for intimidating men three times her size and getting them to do the right thing.
Fans will praise you, scold you, and offer helpful advice. Fans will also defend you.
The great pleasure of a dog is that you may make a fool of yourself with him and not only will he not scold you, but he will make a fool of himself too.
Some are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers, but it is love just the same, and most mothers kiss and scold together.
Women encourage men to be childish, then scold them.