Charles Haley — American Athlete born on January 06, 1964,

Charles Lewis Haley is a retired American football linebacker and defensive end who played in the National Football League for the San Francisco 49ers and the Dallas Cowboys. He was selected in the fourth round of the 1986 NFL Draft out of James Madison University... (wikipedia)

I sacrificed for the Dallas Cowboys when most quit. I put in overtime to try to help young players.
You have to give guys tools to win with, and if they have success with them then they believe in you. If you don't have anything in your bag to work with, then they won't believe.
I just took the good and the bad from all of the coaches I've been around.
I meet people from different walks of life that I can have relationships with.
I usually kept everybody at arm's distance.