Dan Savage — American Writer born on October 07, 1964,

Daniel Keenan "Dan" Savage is an American author, media pundit, journalist, and activist for the LGBT community. Savage writes the internationally syndicated relationship and sex advice column Savage Love. In 2010, Savage and his husband, Terry Miller, began the It Gets Better Project to help prevent suicide among LGBT youth. He has also worked as a theater director, sometimes credited as Keenan Hollahan... (wikipedia)

Every question is a hypothetical question for everyone but the person who asks it.
I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that's worth living, one where you do what you want to do, pursue your passions. That way, if you meet someone, they'll be joining a life that's already really good.
Straight couples don't have to be monogamous to be married or married to be monogamous. Monogamy no more defines marriage than the presence of children does. Monogamy isn't compulsory and its absence doesn't invalidate a marriage.
One man's blasphemy doesn't override other people's free-speech rights, their freedom to publish, freedom of thought.
School is very conformist, and one of the very first conforming that goes on in preschool and kindergarten is gender.