Joan Cusack — American Actress born on October 11, 1962,

Joan Cusack is an American actress. She received Academy Award nominations for Best Supporting Actress for her roles in the romantic comedy-drama Working Girl and the romantic comedy In & Out as well as one Golden Globe nomination for her performance in the latter. She has appeared in other films such as the romantic comedy-drama Broadcast News, the comedies Stars and Bars and Married to the Mob, the romantic comedy-drama Say Anything..., the dark comedy Addams Family Values, romantic comedy Nine Months, the mystery thriller film Arlington Road, the romantic comedy Runaway Bride, the music-themed comedy School of Rock, and the computer-animated comedy adventure film Toy Story 2 and Toy Story 3. She is also the narrator of the children's television series Peep and the Big Wide World... (wikipedia)

Don't live vicariously through your kids or try to shape them into who you wanted to be, like the popular kid or an athlete. Children should be given the opportunity to be themselves.
You know, I think I'm more of a micro-person, so to me, the context and the framework of trying to do what you love and feel passionate about, in supporting your family in that way, is the most important thing to me.
I think there's nothing better than laughing in life, so that's nice, to be thought of as someone who can make someone laugh. It's 'cause I think life is hard. You know, my dad was a really silly man. A great Irish silly man. And that's fine.
Can they do both? That's a huge balance, I think, with kids- trying to find the right- it's everything, you know, it's social life, it's academics, it's sports.
I think just because life is hard, it does seem fun to have a break and laugh about things, so I think in the end, my instincts go there.